tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494631701805702351.post3559723389236594780..comments2014-07-26T12:49:41.344-07:00Comments on '14 ILC at Columbia: Humble BeginningsDon Gosneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17110247579694408858noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494631701805702351.post-70471759085647100282014-07-01T04:18:47.814-07:002014-07-01T04:18:47.814-07:00You have a good point. I wasn't there, but som...You have a good point. I wasn't there, but sometimes, especially in times of frustration, it's good to see how the other person is viewing the situation. This is key to defusing something and everyone walking away feeling OK about it. Sounds to me like both parties were upset.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11043942515056416974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494631701805702351.post-11694134069303128232014-06-28T07:33:21.455-07:002014-06-28T07:33:21.455-07:00I have disagree a little. If the hostess was in tu...I have disagree a little. If the hostess was in tune with the group, that could have been her opportunity to educate rather than be offensive and rude. That's basic customer service. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11127435131579368196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494631701805702351.post-50683917214643487752014-06-27T21:09:06.811-07:002014-06-27T21:09:06.811-07:00It's not normal for a group at a restaurant t...It's not normal for a group at a restaurant to demand separate checks for each person. Some might do this, but most do not. Usually, it is up to the people at the table to figure out between themselves how to split the bill. If you didn't all bring cash, then that's on you. Most people would not expect the waitress to deal with this. You made your waitress do a lot of extra work for you and your group demonstrated that they didn't understand typical restaurant protocol. This may be why she felt frustrated and wanted to make sure her tip was not lost in the confusion. Try to see things from other people's perspective. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11043942515056416974noreply@blogger.com